012-Derald Wing Sue, Professor of Psychology and Education, Teachers College, Columbia University, Micro aggressions, implicit vs. explicit bias

This episode is a conversation between Andre Koen and Derald Wing Sue, Professor of Psychology and Education at Teachers College, Columbia University. Recorded approximately 01/25/2017.

Topics: Micro aggressions, implicit vs. explicit bias

Youtube video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h_lQNI9T6vs

Sue obtained his bachelor’s degree from Oregon State University, and then a MS and PhD in counseling psychology from the University of Oregon.[3]After completing his degree, he became a counselor at the University of California, Berkeley counseling center, and was known as the counselor who supported Asian American students. During his time at Berkeley, he conducted mental health studies on Asian Americans, which then led him to coauthor two books: A Theory of Multicultural Counseling and Therapy and Understanding Abnormal Behavior.[3]

In 1972, Sue and his brother Stanley, cofounded the Asian American Psychological Association. Sue was the founding president of the organization.[7]

In 1981, Sue published Counseling the Culturally Diverse: Theory and Practice.[2] In addition to being a professor of psychology at Teachers College, he served on Bill Clinton’s President’s Advisory Board on Race in 1996.[8] He served as a past president of the Society for the Psychological Study of Ethnic Minority Issues, and the president of the Society of Counseling Psychology of the American Psychological Association.[1] Along with Melba J. T. Vasquez and Rosie Bingham, he co-founded the National Multicultural Conference and Summit in 1999.

He has written over 150 publications on various topics such as multicultural counseling and psychotherapy, psychology of racism and antiracism, cultural diversity, cultural competence, and multicultural organizational development,[3] but more specifically, multicultural competencies and racial microaggressions.[1]https://world-trust.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/7-Racial-Microagressions-in-Everyday-Life.pdf

011-“It’s not Trump, it’s us” by Kevin S. Aldridge, conversation between Andre Koen & Kevin Aldridge

“It’s not Trump, it’s us” by Kevin S. Aldridgehttp://www.cincinnati.com/story/opinion/contributors/2017/01/23/s-not-trump-s-us/96942316/

Kevin Aldridge , kaldridge@enquirer.com

Published 2:53 p.m. ET Jan. 23, 2017

Kevin S. Aldridge is the Enquirer’s associate opinion editor. He is also pastor of St. Paul African Methodist Episcopal Church in Milford. He can be reached at kaldridge@enquirer.com. Twitter: @Kevaldrid

“America will never be destroyed from the outside. If we falter and lose our freedoms, it will be because we destroyed ourselves.” – Abraham Lincoln

I’m worried about the future of America. Not because of President Donald Trump or his policies, or Russia, or ISIS.

I worry because of us.

Racist, homophobic graffiti was spray painted at Withrow University High School this past weekend. (Photo: Hannah Sparling)

“We the People” seem to have forgotten how to treat one another like, well, people. Hostility and meanness seem to be the order of the day, and I find myself wondering when did America’s citizens become one of its enemies? Our political discourse has become so corrosive, so divisive that its primary casualty has been common decency and respect.

We excel at dehumanization these days and have stopped looking at one another as fellow countrymen wanting to create a more perfect union. Instead, we view one another with suspicion and contempt, reducing our neighbors to a label: Republican, Democrat, conservative, liberal, libtard, tea bagger, alt-right. I often scratch my head about how I, a black, middle-class pastor born in a blue-collar steel mill town in the middle of the Rust Belt, could be labeled a “coastal elite.” It would be funny if it weren’t such a serious problem.

It’s easy to blame Presidents Trump or Barack Obama for the divisions in our country, but that lets each of us off the hook way too easily. We play a part in this too – a bigger one than any president. (After all, who elects them?) While Trump controls his personal Twitter account, he doesn’t have access to your social media. Each of us decides what message we want to send out to the world, and if we don’t like the tone we’re hearing from our country, then perhaps we need to check our own.

Luke 6:45 says, “A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart, for the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.” Whether you’re a believer or not, it’s hard to argue the truth this passage of scripture contains. What comes out of our mouths reveals what is truly in our hearts. And if this is true, then based on the rhetoric that is being spoken on all sides, it is safe to say America has a serious heart problem.

Each of us must do an honest assessment of ourselves and the words we are speaking to one another. Words contain power. I fear that we are killing one another and our country with thoughtless, careless and destructive language that is pushing us farther apart rather than bringing us closer together. We seem to care more about the number of LIKES on our snarky Facebook and Twitter posts, than engaging in real conversation or gaining true understanding.

However, there are two things I believe each of us can do to help our country correct course. The first thing is learn to listen more. This is not just simply hearing someone else’s words, but actively listening to those words, feelings and thoughts. Many of us enter conversations to win the debate. Many of us don’t actively listen, we just wait for our turn to speak. Many of us only like to hear points of view that support our own.

I’ve engaged with a number of Enquirer readers whom I disagree with politically, but through our dialogue I’ve gained perspective. Sometimes, these readers and I even discover there are more things we agree about than we disagree about.

The second thing we can do is make sure our words matter. It’s not how much you say, but it’s making what you say count. Are your words making an impact or is it just chatter? Are you contributing to the conversation or trolling? Right now, there is a lot of noise out there that, unfortunately, is drowning out real, constructive conversations. Political correctness is dead and has been replaced by a spare-no-feelings, tell-it-like-it-is attitude. I’m not a fan mainly because, as a communicator, I understand that it’s not so much what you say as how you say it. Being politically correct doesn’t mean that you can’t or shouldn’t speak truth, it is just the recognition that I need to take other people’s feelings and dignity into account when I speak. I value frankness as much as anyone, but our words carry more impact if they are not weighed down by rudeness and baseless stereotypes.

We absolutely should stand up and speak in favor of our beliefs, but we don’t have to say something about everything. And when we do open our mouths, we should endeavor to be thoughtful and solution-oriented. It’s easy to finger-point and highlight flaws; its often much more difficult to fix them.

So let’s not allow ugly words and acts such as the painting of swastikas on buildings in our community define us. This really isn’t about Trump or any other elected official. This is about us, We the People. Say what you will about President Trump’s inaugural address, but he got a few things right in his remarks.

“We must speak our minds openly, debate our disagreements honestly, but always pursue solidarity,” he said. “When America is united, America is totally unstoppable.”

Most importantly, he said this: “Everyone is listening to you now.”

“It’s not Trump, it’s us” by Kevin S. Aldridge

Kevin Aldridge , kaldridge@enquirer.com

010-MN Representative Nick Zerwas – Bill promotes financial penalties for some protesters

(Recorded 02/02/2017) Guest: MN Representative Nick Zerwas (R) District: 30A

a) Nick’s motivational speaking as a tool for inspiration and motivation and how that helped his to serve the people of Elk River.
b) Nick’s thrust towards having protesters pay for the expenses that law enforcement incurs as a result of illegal protest and how that might be balanced wth first amendment’s protection of assembly.

Representative Nick Zerwas (R) District: 30A
Email: rep.nick.zerwas@house.mn
433 State Office Building
100 Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd.
Saint Paul, Minnesota 55155

Related resources:

“The Gift of an Open Heart: The Struggle from Birth to Graduation for a Young Heart Patient” Paperback – October 20, 2005 by Nicholas Zerwas (Author)

American Heart Association – Nick Zerwas

“What really happens when an emergency vehicle comes upon a protest [PHOTOS]” Thursday, February 2, 2017 by Mike Mullen

New Minnesota law would force protesters to reimburse police – Jan. 26, 2017 – 2:40 – State representative Nick Zerwas explains on ‘Fox & Friends’

“Minnesota GOP charts new course in response to protests” by Kyle Potter, Associated Press · St. Paul. Jan 23, 2017

“Rep. Zerwas: Dayton ‘Made Things Worse’ With Comments On OIS” July 8, 2016 2:36 PM